Choose the way you (a)live
You can choose. What will you make possible?
Sometimes life changes suddenly.
A death, a divorce, an illness, a business sale, a move, a career shift, a family decision that can no longer be postponed.
Sometimes nothing dramatic happens at all.
Things still look fine from the outside, but something underneath no longer fits. Perhaps your body is changing, your energy is different, or you have reached a stage of life where the things that used to work for you simply don’t in quite the same way. You may still be functioning, delivering and doing what needs to be done, while quietly wondering whether there is another way.
I work with people, families, leaders and organisations at points of change.
The answer might involve strategic thinking, succession and legacy planning, coaching, leadership work, facilitated conversations or deeper reflective practice. What matters is not which tool we use. It is understanding what is really going on, what matters to you and what you want to make possible.
Why do I do this work?
Because I think we can do better.
I spent more than 25 years working across law, financial advice, business leadership and coaching. I have seen brilliant technical advice, talented people and impressive organisations, but I have also seen how easily we can become trapped by systems, structures and expectations that were never designed around the whole human being.
I don’t believe the future is about squeezing more from people, adding another policy or simply finding a more efficient way to do what we have always done. I think there is an opportunity to work, lead, advise and live with more clarity, creativity, connection and courage.
I want to help people move from feeling that life, work or change is simply happening to them, towards a place where they can play a more active part in what comes next. Sometimes that means making a difficult decision. Sometimes it means questioning the question itself. Sometimes it means recognising that the thing you have been trying very hard to fix may not be the real issue.
My work is practical, but I am interested in what sits underneath the practical problem too: the relationships, assumptions, fears, patterns and energy that shape what becomes possible.
I am not interested in change for the sake of change. I am interested in creating the conditions in which people and organisations can expand rather than shrink, and where something genuinely better can emerge.
Work with Sue
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For individuals and families making important decisions about life, money, business, succession and what comes next.
You may be dealing with a divorce, bereavement, inheritance, business sale or family change. Or you may be planning ahead: thinking about the future of a family business, how best to provide for your family, how to support a vulnerable beneficiary, what to do with family wealth or how to make a meaningful philanthropic impact.
My starting point is simple: what do you actually want?
That sounds obvious, but it is often the part that gets missed. Lawyers, accountants and financial advisers are trained to solve problems within their own disciplines. Their advice can be excellent, but your life does not arrive neatly divided into legal, tax and financial compartments. Family, money, relationships, responsibility and hopes for the future all sit in the same picture.
I help you make sense of that bigger picture before we rush to a technical solution. We work out what matters, what is possible, where the blockers are and what you want your money, business or resources to make possible.
I do not replace your lawyer, accountant or regulated financial adviser. I won’t draft your will or provide regulated financial advice. What I can do is help with the thinking around it, bring the different strands together and help make sure the technical work serves the life you are actually trying to create.
Sometimes that also means helping with the things that make a plan live and breathe: family conversations, family charters, principles for decision-making, philanthropy strategy or governance around how wealth, businesses or responsibilities are going to be handled in practice.
I also work alongside professional advisers, who often value having someone create the space for this thinking before they are asked to provide the technical answer.
The aim is not to produce something technically clever that nobody really wants. It is to create a plan that works for the people who have to live with it.
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I work with capable, ambitious people who want more from, and for, themselves.
Sometimes that starts with ambition. You want the bigger role, the next challenge or the confidence to lead at another level.
Sometimes it starts because life has knocked you sideways. Illness, loss, anxiety, caring responsibilities, a changing body or simply the accumulated weight of doing too much for too long can leave even the most capable person feeling unlike themselves. Midlife in particular can bring a rather unhelpful combination of enormous responsibility, changing priorities and a body that occasionally appears to have developed its own agenda.
And sometimes there is no obvious crisis. Everything looks fine, but something feels out of kilter. You may be tired, questioning what all the effort is for or beginning to wonder whether the version of success you have been pursuing is still yours.
Transformational coaching is not simply about getting better at playing the game. Sometimes the more interesting question is whether it is the right game.
I understand high-performing environments because I have spent much of my life in them. I also know what it is to go through periods when life stops making quite as much sense as it used to. Sometimes what you need first is not another goal. It is somewhere to become grounded, understand what you are experiencing and reconnect with yourself before deciding what comes next.
My work can then go deeper than conventional coaching. We may explore ambition, identity, relationships, beliefs and patterns that have served you well but may now be limiting what feels possible. Where it is right for you, I may also draw on meditation, intuition, energetic awareness or other reflective practices to help you hear what you already know beneath the noise.
There is no prescribed formula. We agree how we work, and the coaching sits within a clear professional relationship with proper boundaries, confidentiality and recognised coaching standards.
The point is not to turn you into somebody else. It is to help you feel more grounded in who you are, see more of what is possible and become more fully yourself.
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I work with leaders and organisations who are ambitious for their people and want to create the conditions in which they can do their best work.
Sometimes the work starts with one leader. Sometimes it is a leadership team. Sometimes an organisation is going through growth, change or transformation and knows that what got it here will not be enough for what comes next.
I don’t deliver generic leadership programmes, personality profiling or psychometric testing. I start with what is actually happening in your organisation, what you want to change and what will genuinely help.
A business may talk about collaboration while rewarding competition. It may say people are its greatest asset while measuring almost entirely what can be counted. It may want creativity while leaving everybody too stretched to think. These are often system problems, not people problems.
My work is about helping leaders see that system more clearly and then change what needs to change. That might involve individual coaching, team coaching, facilitated conversations, workshops or a bespoke leadership programme. We may look at trust, decision-making, team dynamics, culture, power, progression, what gets rewarded, what gets avoided and where energy is flowing or getting stuck.
I want people to be able to bring more of themselves to their work and to be proud of what they create. Whether that means designing an exceptional product, giving outstanding professional advice, raising money for a cause or simply doing a job brilliantly, the environment around them should help rather than hinder that.
I am interested in the qualities that allow people and organisations to operate at a higher level: judgement, courage, creativity, compassion, challenge, intuition, connection and the ability to bring out the best in others.
As AI and technology take on more technical and repeatable work, those qualities will matter more, not less. The opportunity is not to squeeze more output from fewer people. It is to create organisations that make more of their people, not less.
And I want the work to have substance. We agree what we are trying to change, what better looks like and how we will know whether anything has actually moved.
Serious work can still be creative, playful and human. In fact, I often think it works better that way.
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I am interested in board and non-executive roles where I can bring strategic thinking, judgement, constructive challenge and a strong focus on people and purpose.
I have experience across leadership, governance, business growth, professional services, philanthropy and complex decision-making. I currently chair Worldwide Cancer Research and have served as a trustee of a number of charitable trusts. I have also worked with high-net-worth individuals and families to shape philanthropic strategies.
I know governance. I understand the mechanics, the responsibilities and the importance of doing things properly. But good governance should be the foundation, not the ambition.
What interests me is what a board can make possible when it is working at its best.
Good boards need more than technical competence and sensible papers. They need people who can see the bigger picture, ask the question nobody else is asking, challenge without creating theatre and help the organisation stay connected to what it is actually there to do.
I am particularly drawn to purpose-led organisations going through growth, transition or change, where the board has an opportunity not simply to oversee the organisation but to help it become better, braver and more effective.
My style is engaged, independent and straight-talking. I will support where support is useful and challenge where challenge is needed.
I am not looking for a collection of titles. I am interested in roles where I can genuinely contribute.
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